Talking to your partner

Seek understanding and support.

Your BPH symptoms and treatment can have an enormous impact on your partner’s sleep, sexual function, and relationship with you. A survey of more than 200 women whose partners suffered from BPH showed that more than one third had problems with sexual function because of their partner’s BPH condition.3 That’s why it’s so important to talk about any discomfort, limitation, or embarrassment you have about sex with your partner. Even before you make a decision about treatment, let your partner know how your BPH treatment might affect your sexual relationship. It’s always good for both of you to know what to expect from treatment.

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